Sheldon Brown and the givers and takers

The world is made up of givers and takers, not everyone of course, and some not all the time.
If someone gets recognized as a giver, the takers will call on that same person time and time again to give, give, give.
I have become reluctant to give to charities, because I have learned that if I give to one charity, my name address and phone number is sold to other charities, and I am called upon to donate over and over.
Givers don’t just give money, some share knowledge they have for the benefit of others. One such man was Sheldon Brown, a bike mechanic and somewhat eccentric character. (Picture above.) He had a vast knowledge of bicycle specifications. He shared these on his website, where anyone could go for free and look up standard thread specs, for different countries, ball-bearing sizes, and spoke lengths, etc., etc. Information necessary if you happen to be restoring an old bicycle.
When Sheldon Brown passed away in 2008 way too early at 63 years of age, the bike shop where he worked sponsored and maintained the website. When I read an article stating that the bike shop hosting Sheldon’s website was closing their doors and the was concern about the future of the site. I thought this was information I should share with others on the Dave Moulton Bike Facebook Group.
Now my timing was not good, it was Saturday evening, my wife was preparing the evening meal, and I needed to shut down the computer, go wash up so we could eat. The first comment back was, “You do it Dave, you would be the ideal person for the job.”
No.... That was not what I was thinking at all, and I wrote back. “I can’t do it, I am 85 years old for Cri-sake and have enough on my plate with my own blog, and bike registry.”
Then someone asks, “Where can we donate money?” I don’t know, why should it be the one to find out? I do a quick Google search; find a Sheldon Brown Facebook page and I post there asking for info on how we can donate to preserve the website.
Meanwhile, my wife is calling me to come eat, as I post the link to the Sheldon Brown FB page. Now I have a response back from the first poster. “85 is no age at all. My mother is 87 and she’s a powerhouse.” I responded to that with a post that basically said, “Fuck you.” When someone else pointed out that the FB page I had linked to was for a young girl named Sheldon Brown. Not Sheldon Brown Bicycle Guru.
Now as well as being thoroughly pissed off, I am embarrassed that In my haste I had made such a stupid mistake. I went back to the FB page and deleted my post there. Then with my wife still calling me to come and eat, I said, “Fuck it, I’m done.” And deleted the whole original post on the Dave Moulton Bike page. Shut down and went to eat. It did not ruin my whole evening, but did leave me to wonder, “Why do I even bother?”
I think it is safe to say, “I am a giver.” I have left a legacy of several thousand bikes, that will still be here long after I’m gone. These bikes will continue to be bought and sold, collected, ridden, and enjoyed for many years to come.
This leaves me with a warm, fuzzy feeling, and little else. A feeling of pride, but not so proud that I am going to fall for a line like, “You do it Dave, you would be ideal for the job.” Then when that failed, he came back with, “85 is nothing, my mother is a powerhouse at 87.” This is how people try to manipulate givers, flattery first, and if that does not work, try shaming them.
It has been a while since I had a good old rant, feels good to sometimes get it out. It would be a pity if Sheldon Brown’s site were to disappear, but I doubt that will happen. Someone with a giving nature will donate time and money to keep it up and running. But it ain’t me, I have enough on my plate.
I have simply drawn attention to the issue, now I am done.
Believers, non-believers, and those that will believe anything
Does anyone remember before the Internet and social media how simple and pleasant life was? For the most part there were just two main schools of thought. The religious element that believed in God, and the atheist that did not believe in God.
It always seemed strange to me that politics were always tied to each side with the religious side to the right and the atheist to the left, but that is the way it has always been. Those that did not believe in God were often scholars, academics, and scientists, who say that the existence of a God could not be proved by science or mathematics.
If one thinks about it, is a belief in science any different from a belief in God? The atheist can be every bit as dogmatic in his unwavering belief in science. And what about the free thinkers, the artists? Do they not have a place in the spectrum? For what is creativity but having an original thought.
The scientist discovers and the artist creates, both spring from an original thought so is there any real difference? The scientist tries to prove his idea by scientific experiment or mathematics, if he cannot it remains a theory to be proved later by other scientists, The artist has an original thought and sets about bringing that idea into fruition as a painting, sculpture, poem, song, literature, or script.
Scientific discovery implies that the science, (Electricity for example) was always there waiting to be discovered. As a songwriter I share a belief held by many other songwriters that the songs are already written, and they just appear, often very quickly in the mind of the songwriter.
Some of us believe the artist is simply a vehicle through which art appears. This is not new thinking, the Native American called it “Hand Magic,” the Great Spirit guiding the hand of the artist as he creates the pottery, or she weaves the blanket.
In order to hold such a belief, one must realize there is an Intelligence at work way beyond any concept our feeble minds can conceive. If that were not so, then we have reached the end of scientific discovery, there is nothing left to discover.
Or could it be that scientists create the science, and artists simply discover the art, all made possible by an Intelligence that might be God. Wouldn’t that be a wonderful discovery, that we really are all just One, and all on the same side. On the same page so to speak, or we could be if we just make the effort.
People are splitting into groups held together by an ever-increasing amount of strange science and conspiracy theories. It seems people go online not to find answers, but to seek out others with the same point of view. When the answers are there to be found if one keeps on looking with an open mind.
And if one can believe in an Intelligence beyond our own inadequate intelligence, the answer to anything and everything is there for the asking.